Going Beyond... to love again?

As I was cleaning my kitchen, mopping my floors and pondering random things while listening to random love songs… I couldn’t help but think of the people in the world who were so hurt and devastated because of the actions of another (in any type of relationship). Because of someone else’s actions, words, behavior or otherwise – some people have decided to never love again, never trust again, never letting themselves be in the “position” to be hurt again. This is for the broken, broken hearted, hurt and abused.

Not everyone believes that everything happens for a reason… which is kind of sad, because there’s so many things that can be learned from a situation when one looks at everything as a lesson, a stepping stone, or some kind of event that could very well propel you forward to your destiny. BUT, in not seeing the synchronicities of life unfolding before us – in choosing to never venture towards true love again, you may be missing out on the very thing you’re shielding yourself from – finding your true mate. When we look at events, relationships, situations, conversations, random spoken words from a stranger, a song on the radio, a random post on social media even – they all have messages that coincide with whatever it is we’re going through. 

For example, I don’t normally have trust issues with people until it’s plainly obvious something is amiss. However, recently I finally opened my eyes and saw the truth – that the person I was madly in love with for a large portion of my life, really didn’t deserve me – EVER during that time or in the present. For numerous reasons, I’ll just say that I found it very difficult to believe what I “wanted” to hear… I really wanted the truth, but the lies were much more comforting until I couldn’t ignore my gut instincts that just kept at me until I ended it. What a relief I felt, that even though I was walking away from love, it was absolutely necessary in order for me to find the person I’m MEANT to be with. Yes, I know I just recently posted about salvaging your relationship if possible – but sometimes, it’s just not meant to be and it’s liberating when you accept the truth, no matter how hard it is.

You see, as I was cleaning and pondering – I thought about just throwing in the towel and staying single for the rest of my days. But then I thought about how many countless people are single, threw in the towel or just can’t find the “one” they know is out there for them… I’m here to tell you: Please, don’t give up on love!! How sad is it to think that the one that’s waiting for you, will be waiting in vain for the rest of their days, because you decided not to venture that road? What if they wind up finally settling for someone who’s going to abuse them, hurt them, cheat on them, or otherwise – because they couldn’t wait any longer for YOU? (You weren’t showing up anyway!)

What if you had ventured that road, you and your meant to be love - find a love so great that you thought only existed in the movies or fairytales? Instead, you’re sitting there alone every night, convincing yourself that you’re happy and don’t need anyone… while the love of your life, is encountering all sorts of heartbreak – looking for you. It’s a sad conundrum if you ask me… it’s bad enough that some people wind up in the wrong relationship, while their “meant to be” is out there alone or with someone they shouldn’t be with too, and so on, down the line. (It can have a huge ripple effect! How you don’t see the synchronicities there is beyond me!)

My best friend once told me that you can’t expect the person you’re meant to be with, to find you or come along – if you have someone else in their place. OR if you choose to close yourself off from love – that’s just as bad if you ask me. I stayed single for about 5 years, so it’s not a big deal to think about doing it again… but I don’t think it’s fair. It’s not fair to me but more importantly, it’s not fair to the man I’m supposed to be with! The synchronicities or lessons I see in my recent relationship, is it was an opportunity for me to have closure and be able to move forward with no regrets and no hang ups. I’m in a better place for having a failed relationship because there are no lingering feelings or emotions about it – I feel good about letting go and moving forward. One could easily look at the negatives with it, however I don’t live life that way. J I choose to see the good in the situations, because there’s always a positive to every situation if you look for it. I also feel that in letting go of the past, it frees my heart to love another, wholeheartedly. 

For those who were cheated on, betrayed or abused in some way… I have to say, you of all people should NOT give up on love! You simply made a choice and it didn’t turn out the way you had hoped. It doesn’t mean that every relationship in the future will be that way. It doesn’t mean you should just say “I’m done” and throw in the towel… it means you need to be more selective with who you give your heart to! It means you need to do some research and learn how to spot abusers, cheaters, or otherwise! Learn how to read body language, ask the tough questions and see the truth for yourself! It’s not that hard… it’s harder to never love again and live with the knowledge that you may have a heartbroken love waiting for you, crying because they’re so tired of waiting for you to get your head out of your ass!

If I could wave a magick wand and show you that somewhere, there is a true love out there for you, a happiness beyond belief waiting for you – I would show you, in hopes that you would open your heart and begin again. There’s a quote going around social media that says something to the effect of: When someone hurts you or betrays you, it’s a sign of their character, not yours. Don’t let someone else’s behavior prevent you from having a full and happy life. Don’t let the past rob you of your future.

One final note before I close… earlier today I stumbled on an old notebook where I wrote some poems and possible starts to some blogs, books and posts. One of the things I saw that I wrote was about not losing your childhood innocence. Which in this case, would definitely apply! To let go of the pain, I recommend analyzing the situation for possible lessons, what did you need to learn from that person(s) or situation(s)? (No, the answer is NOT to give up on love!) Once you feel confident there was at least one or more good lessons, and you inspect the lesson, learn from it (hopefully) and find the similarities in the lessons or reasons (i.e., was there a “type” of person you were choosing? Was there a pattern in the person or relationships? A pattern in the situations?) The key is to find the corresponding lessons, key points, patterns, etc. Once you are able to look at the situation from a neutral perspective, it gets easier to see the similarities and the lessons will jump out at you. 

When you see, you’ll probably have an “AH HA” moment and the pain, baggage, trials and lies you told yourself will be much easier to put down so you can move forward. Yes, you saw that right – the lies you told yourself. In order to move forward with a good, clear and clean understanding and consciousness about things, let’s face it, you had a part of what transpired in some way… you chose to be in a relationship with that person, you chose to stay, you chose to believe, you chose… every day that you stayed, you chose. Of course you didn’t choose for them to be cheaters or abusers, but the fact is that you chose them, you chose to be there. 

Ouch! If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll feel better accepting responsibility where it lies. In being honest with yourself, accepting responsibility for your role in the relationship, and finding the lessons – you should be in a much better position to be free from the restraints of the past so as to move forward. J It works for me with everything in life and it prevents me from playing the blame game. No one likes a sore loser and no one likes to hear someone bitch and complain, placing blame! 

So check yourself! Get your shit together, reconcile your issues with the past and remember how much fun it was to be young and in love! Your inner child remembers you were once a trusting, more loving and more adventurous person! Put the baggage down, do some self-healing, a little research if needed to spot the abusers, and dust off your dancing shoes! Live! Love! Laugh!!!

LOVE & Light,

Shelle

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I choose YOU!! How to keep the intimacy and love alive in your relationship!

Over the years, some of my friends that have talked with me about their relationships have many of the same or very similar complaints or ‘issues’ if you will. When I was younger, I gave the type of advice you’d expect from an inexperienced youth – to dump them and find someone else. After personally experiencing losing the love of my life because of miscommunication, assumptions and not talking about things – ignoring the pink elephant in the room – I have a new outlook on relationships of every kind, but especially those with your spouse. (Thank GOD we’ve been able to work through our issues and are now very happy!)

What I’ve learned is what a PRECIOUS GIFT it is that someone LOVES YOU!!! Not only do they love you, but they chose you… they chose you despite all of your quirks, annoying habits, morning breath, messy hair and crazy ass! They saw something in you… maybe it’s a reflection of the love they see in themselves, but regardless why they love you, the point is that they love you and they’re in it for the long haul. What a miracle it is, that someone wants to spend their entire life with YOU!!

First of all, they didn’t just choose you (if you’re in a serious, long term relationship) you chose them too – and in your choosing them, you gave them the permission to be able to count on you – for the long haul. They’re letting their guard down, releasing their fears – whether it be fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, intimacy, etc.  Most people have some kind of fears that we must face and overcome when it comes to a relationship and the fact that someone is facing down their fears to be with you should earn them (and you) a few brownie points of respect among you two.

I can’t remember where I saw it, Dr. Phil I think… but I remember the message loud and clear: You must CHOOSE your spouse EVERYDAY!!! Not just in the beginning when you’re dating or freshly wed; but EVERYDAY! The biggest complaint that the men who have discussed it with me, is that they no longer have sex with their wives. Their wives were no longer affectionate, cuddly, romantic, outgoing, nor having deep meaningful conversations about various topics that help you feel like you’re connecting. But guess what? Neither are the men!! Folks, you should know this – I shouldn’t have to tell you relationships are a two way street – you must work at keeping the intimacy alive. I get it though, we get into routines, ruts, schedules, appointments, kids (and the million outings and day to day work of raising a happy, healthy kid) day to day life takes a toll on the time have left to unwind, clean the house, relax, or spend quality time romancing and surprising the one we love.

But that’s the “trick” to a happy, healthy, long term relationship – keep the intimacy alive! If your spouse drifts away into “task mode” as I like to call it, then it’s up to you to do a few extra things to reel them back in… whatever works for you two. Sometimes direct and sweet is all it takes: “Come cuddle with me honey.” How can they say no? If they do, gently remind them “it’s been awhile, put that down you can do it later – come cuddle with me.” If it’s been a long time, I always recommend to my friends that they arrange for the kids to be away for the night (sleepover, family, sitter) and have a nice candlelit dinner ready for your sweetie when they walk in the door. Have some music very softly playing, a bottle of wine on the table (and one in the fridge for later in the bedroom!) have in mind some things you can talk about that don’t have anything to do with the daily grind, kids, responsibilities, or the like. This is a date with your sweetie, who you’re trying to relight the flame of love with… stay focused on keeping the mood romantic and light, but don’t force it, just let it flow. If the conversation gets a little dull, bring up something else your spouse might like to do, like take a romantic trip somewhere – even if it’s just a weekend getaway, you can start the initial talking of planning a trip that will help plant the thoughts of gentle beach waves, romantic walks down the beach, watching the sunset – you get the idea. After dinner, to initiate the touching (let’s face it, if it’s been awhile since you’ve hugged or kissed, getting back to it can be awkward at first, it’s ok and actually more romantic if you take it slow) I recommend getting up, walking up to your mate, extend your hand and ask for a dance (the music you have playing is slow and romantic, right?) There’s nothing like a little old fashioned courting to make a woman feel like a girl again… J

If you’re feeling there’s a bigger problem with your relationship, like maybe you’re feeling neglected or have been pushed aside since you started having kids – I highly recommend talking to your spouse, in addition to gently adding the intimacy back into your lives. Walk up behind them when they’re cooking or washing the dishes and gently put your hands on their waste while you gently kiss their neck... there’s lots of little things you can do to rekindle the touching, the kissing, the hugs – you just have to remember what it was like when you first fell in love and all the little things that made your spouse smile or giggle with delight. If you’re having issues because your spouse doesn’t seem as attractive to you as they once did, I recommend not only having some more candlelit dinners, but candlelit baths (less is more here men! You only need one or two candles) candle light or dim lighting is great for taking years off (I learned this by getting out of the tub one night and catching a glimpse of myself looking 20 years younger!) I know it’s a quick, shotty short cut that may cause some to frown, but let’s get real – if you want to save your marriage and rekindle the love light, you gotta use what works – and fast! There is no time to wait – you never know if your spouse is ready to leave because they feel like you do but they might be drowning in heartbreak and unable to know how to proceed, and of course because we never know how much time we have left here. It’s not easy waters to navigate if you haven’t been able to talk about certain things for a while, or if ever. It takes practice to learn to open up and some people never learn. There is no time to wait… the love of your life needs you, whether they’re saying so or not – if you’re feeling alone or neglected, chances are they are too. When you do talk about things, try not to place blame so as to not start an argument. The goal is to create a safe haven in which you can both share your feelings without being hurtful and find resolution.

If you’re having trouble being attracted to your spouse after so many years, I recommend that you focus on the things you do find attractive or simply like about them. Focus on the positive things, the things that make them great. I’ve written previously about how one can fall in love with just about anybody, if you CHOOSE to! The mind is a very powerful thing – if you decide someone is attractive, they will be – and vice versa.

Before you throw in the towel, remember what an honor it is that this person chose you… they love you enough to still be there – not getting the loving intimacy they deserve, they still sit and wait. Don’t take their love for granted… like Bob Marley says “The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her.” And the same goes for women. I had to put a name to what it is that happens to us when we lose our desire for intimacy - we get in task mode and never come back! We get so carried away taking care of everyone and everything, making sure everyone has what they need that not only do we normally forget to take care of ourselves, but we also forget to keep the romance alive within us. If we get too busy with life, we may not even think of romance, let alone try to be romantic or dress up for our significant other. We have to remember to pamper ourselves and keep the romance alive by not forgetting about our men! Most of us know that men are like big babies or little boys and if you’re a mother of a little boy, then you know what little sweethearts they are and how they have just an enormous sweetness and lovingness about them. Now let’s think about it - they don’t really grow up in some ways… they still have these giant hearts, that are just overflowing with love and they get so hurt when they don’t get enough love and attention – whether they say it or not. Remember, your man has a need for love and affection – are YOU going to give it to him? And men, remember the song lyrics “who’s making love to your woman, while you’re out making love to someone else?” The biggest mistake you can make is thinking no one else wants your spouse.

You have to keep the love and passion alive by being loving and passionate!! Some women I’ve spoken with, merely want more quality time with their man and their men aren’t stepping up. Personally, I think one reason is because they don’t know what you want – more time, great, how do they create more time? That’s not the point, but that might be what they’re hearing. I recommend is that you give them ideas of what you want – just like we’re supposed to speak up about what we like in bed, we’re supposed to speak up about what it is we expect and what will make us happy. Start with the simplest things… picnics, walks together (holding hands and talking), a weekend getaway without the kids or stress of chores – if you’re near a beach, maybe just a picnic and lounging on the beach together. The point is to keep it simple and inexpensive. Less is more when it comes to being able to just relax and talk together – and who wants to have to spend wads of cash a couple of times a week just to be able to talk to you and reconnect? Frequent costly outings could put a strain and have the opposite effect. Other romantic gestures could be leaving little love notes for your spouse to find, sending them a random surprise love letter (email works!) a love poem – yours or someone else’s.  And I don’t know about other women, but I love it when my man fixes things around the house or works on my car! (Love my manly man!) One of my favorites is when he makes me breakfast… in bed is great, but just the fact that he took the time to make me my favs, makes me feel special and of course loved.

We’ve all heard “it’s the little things” – because it’s true. I think the little things mean so much to us because it’s little… for example, my boyfriend just likes to eat so one could easily chalk it up to no big deal or insignificant that he cooks breakfast – but I don’t see it that way. It has a deeper, personal meaning to me because of my dad – the little things matter because even though they’re little, they’re important too. It’s the small gestures of love and kindness that create the feeling of being loved; someone took the time to think of you, even if only for a moment. They thought you’d like something, want something or would appreciate a little surprise – whatever it is, the fact that they thought of you instead of a billion other things, is what makes the little things big.

If you want something to happen, you have to make it happen! Don’t sit around feeling sad about the lack of intimacy – do something! Don’t delay, your happiness awaits! J

Love & Light,

Shelle

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Illusions...

In tarot, the moon card is famously known as the card of illusions... when the moon is drawn you are being warned that someone or something may be trying to pull the wool over your eyes or are being deceitful, trying to trick you or cause you to believe something that is not true. It can also represent a change may not be what it seems to be.

With all that the government has been doing for even just the past ten years, if one who is set on uncovering the truth behind what they are doing - it would not be very difficult to move past the illusions and see what's really happening. I have found that with simply shutting off the tv, quieting my mind and asking my subconscious questions, the answers and more arise. When I watch videos about what's happening behind and in front of the scenes I find myself thinking "I'm not surprised" and the truth of the information in the vids resonate within... I know instinctually if it's not true vs. what is and again more questions arise. (If you don't already trust and use your instincts, I highly recommend it!! It's like having a personal lie detector test with you wherever you go!!) :) 

I know I'm not the only one, for there are now even groups such as anonymous, and individuals who are working to bring awareness and the truth to light... but what I wonder the most is "when and how are enough of us going to be able to make a change and save ourselves before it's too late?" Will you believe when they are beating down your door, telling you to get on the truck? Will you believe when they implant a microchip in you? Will you believe when you have a gun to your head and are in the firing line? I've been wondering if fleeing the country will even be enough, for they are working on the grandest scale, placing those of their own in positions of power everywhere...

I am not afraid to die, never have been.... but I am worried that not everyone will be or can be saved. Those who aren't already preparing for the inevitable to come, what shall happen to them and if they do escape how will they survive? I sometimes feel so powerful and other times I feel so vulnerable... in knowing what's to come if we don't stop it, I fear for the children of the world, for the earth itself and all of the dreams and destinies that might remain unfulfilled...

There is a great illusion that has been cast upon our world... if one were to simply do some research they may find themselves gripped by fear and devastation of the truth. I'm here to tell you, fear is not going to help you, it will only serve them. They want us to fear them, that is the power they hold over us. We were not born to live in fear of anything except the final judgment. We were created for a reason and a purpose... and the only way we're going to make it is by banding together - we are billions and they are thousands. We have the power of God coursing through our veins and the eternal soul - together, we are the world.

Please, help your loved ones, help your brethren and let's find a way to take back our world, before the illusion becomes reality.

Love & light,
Shelle

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Stealing from an Angel?!! Shame, shame!!! :/

We are blessed, so very, very blessed!! In my opinion we are more blessed now than ever before. Even though there are terrible, atrocious things happening in the world, there are by far more Angels walking among us now more than ever!! They are here to help us, to spread awareness, to help protect us and to help enlighten us, to encourage us and to help us rise up to our fullest potential. 



One of the many gifts of the Angels is they will sometimes 'pick' someone who is destined to write certain books for us to have available to us - the knowledge and the messages they know that we need. They may whisper in someone's ear and tell them what to say... in the case of Doreen Virtue, that is what she said long ago, in one of her first books - that she had an angel visit her everyday and tell her what to write. 

The angels are doing their best to give us the tools we need to overcome the darkness that is upon the world. One thing I have seen that troubles me, is that some people who don't recognize an angel in human form when they see them - and then steal their words, their pictures, their ideas, or their posts!! I can't count how many times either I or my friends have stumbled upon stolen work and asked the person if they got it from so and so and they deny it! They don't give them credit, they refuse to and they are speechless when asked where did they learn it from then? 

I have seen many who claim to be writers, who don't even post on their wall anything original - no poems, no quotes, no "blogs" or articles... just a bunch of re-shares, pics from the internet or nothing at all for months on end. Some even have the nerve of re-wording people's posts, trying to make it sound like their own - when anyone who knows - knows the truth. One person in particular went so far that when confronted publicly, her followers compared apples to apples and saw that what she was doing, was in fact stealing and rewording someone else's work... as a result, she lost all of her followers, had to delete all of her posts and start from scratch. She lost all respect of those who admired her. 

Personally, I do my best to give credit where credit is due. I've had a few people say that it's annoying or that I'm trying to validate what I say by naming my sources and where I learned from... but I don't care!! I would rather share where I learn and give the person credit than be deemed someone who would steal another persons work or ideas - especially when it may be coming from the divine angels of God!! Normal, everyday people can't always spot an angel - but whether the person is an angel or not - do they not deserve credit?? Since when has it become acceptable to take from others all of their years of hard work, research and dedication to delivering the information to help others - without giving them credit?? When I read a book and see that the author lists their sources and has a long list of books and websites in the back, I get excited!! I see that they are proud to share what they read, where they learned and how they came about writing what they believe, feel and understand to be true. When I see that long list of sources, they earn a great deal of respect from me. It shows me that they did their homework and they aren't afraid to say "I learned from ______ ." 

So go ahead, take what you learn, teach others, spread the word and get the messages out there!! But please, remember the hours upon hours of work that someone else put into teaching you what you learned and share your sources... or risk losing all respect of your peers and most importantly, the divine. 

Love & Light,
Shelle

  
  

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Inconsistency?

I've read advice from other bloggers online and one of the things I've seen is they say "inconsistency" isn't good and one should be consistently posting or how heartbreaking it is to see a blog become "abandoned". Well if you ask me one of the great things about Google / Google Blogger is that by simply clicking on my profile which appears in the left on every page of my blog, is that one can easily follow my new posts. It's not that I've abandoned my blog, it's just that it's been moved a bit! I still post, almost every day however I've noticed that it's easier to communicate and maintain relationships with people through my Google+ page! Most people don't like clicking on a link just to read a blog and would rather just view it directly on Google. In an effort to avoid too many duplicate posts, I post directly to G+.

If you're missing my blogs, please come on over to my page, drop me a line and let me know that you're one of my blog readers too! It's nice to know who's who and make friends with everyone. I appreciate your continued support, friendship and feedback!

Also, if you're curious as to why I take time off occasionally from posting either on Google+ or my blog, it's because I just finished my 2nd book The Little Book of Blogs ~ #warriorshelle and I'm working on a new writing project!! I'm really excited as the newest venture I'm working on is flexing my writing muscles into fiction and I'm also gearing up to write children's books too! Woot Woot!! As always, staying woooo busy!!! Drop me a line to say hi or let me know how you like my new book!

Love & Light,
Shelle

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Things I ponder... our world and what's become acceptable

I'm pretty disheartened as I sit here reviewing some of the articles, conversations and events that I've seen unfold onto my facebook page recently. You see I post things such as music, uplifting quotes, and links to things I find online that doesn't always make it to the general public because of the media or lack thereof at times. What happened recently was just the final straw on top of the camel's proverbial back.

If you're friends with me on facebook then you know I also share videos and articles about political things that I just feel needs to be shared. I share things that pictate what's really happening as far as politicians and how they go back on their words, completely rob of us of our rights and worse...

What I realized tonight as I reviewed my previous posts, is that there are just far too many obscure and down right awful things that we've somehow come to accept as 'normal'... is it just that things have gotten so increasingly worse over time that we've been dummed down to not think it's ok when some villages that are minding their own business suddenly get bombed during a time of peace? Or what's worse is that during those 'missions' innocent women and children are the main victims and we don't seem to know or care about it, let alone bat an eye at times when it's brought to our attention.

What I also saw was that 6 year olds in kindergarten are being arrested for throwing a major temper tantrum and children are getting threatened by their teachers to make sure their parents vote for Obama... or they may fail their class and be held back. A teen age boy getting shot when visiting his step-mom, and people claiming they're Christian while they cuss you out and damn one to hell for NOT supporting Obama... who does that? I met someone who did...

When did it become acceptable for us to not get upset over these things? Why on earth anyone would want someone in the White House who is taking our Constitutional Rights away faster than we can keep up is beyond me. And let's not forget about how the true stats of Ron Paul are being falsified on national television? Why would they do this you ask? Because they can... the news stations are primarily owned by the Obama and Romney's supporters (which by the way the same companies are supporting both candidates) and they don't want Ron Paul to win because he'll interfere with this giant conspiracy to turn our great country into what's quickly becoming a place we are no longer safe from our own government.

When did it become ok for Obama (or any President for that matter) to side-step Congress and decide that he's able to arrest us with no jury, trial, or attorney? Do not pass go, give up all your property and become a slave? There are some that argue that past President's have enacted an Executive Order, but where does that say we should be accepting of this? Now obviously I'm not saying 'we the people' should be doing anything crazy, I'm just saying when did all of this become ok and something that's become normal to us? As in the book I spoke of before 'How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved' in my past post about Abuse; when did we 'normalize' this kind of control and abuse of our lives and individual rights? If you ask me, I think 'we the people' need to become more involved with our world around us and it not only starts at home but it starts with research, keeping ourselves informed using all means of information such as the news papers, news sites that report the truth, youtube and online at the individual candidates sites. We need to get the information to make educated decisions and stop being bullied around! Vote, but not just vote because the digital pole machines have been proven to be easily tampered with so we need to go back to paper ballots! There's a petition online that one can sign to push for paper (again) at the poles.

We need to realize that our lives are not for sale, our children and their future's depend on it and something needs to be done... when did it become ok to be told what to do by our government and teachers? We are the ones electing them and ignoring what's happening in the world around us... I've seen where Obama ordered drone planes into 'friendly' areas and hurt innocent women and children. I've seen so many things happen lately and it's so sad to realize we've turned a cheek to the morals and values that used to come almost automatically...

It brings tears to my eyes all the time when I see what has become acceptable and how impossible it seems to be to make a stand. But wait, now thanks to Obama if we do make a stand we could be arrested (for peaceful protests) and if we're not careful we'll lose the internet and all of our means to keep educated about the happenings around the world. We're losing our rights, lost our privacy (yeah you know our phones are all tapped now, right? and did you know our internet usage is spied on too?) And what are we doing? Hiding behind closed doors, afraid to speak out, afraid to make our voices heard for fear of 'what they'll do to us'... The founding fathers of our country enacted our Constitutional Rights for a reason, THIS very reason. Many have said it's as if 'they' knew these things would happen and created the Constitution to ensure our safety, why else would possible dictators work so hard to take our rights away?  When did we the people learn to 'ignore' what is considered unacceptable and allow these things to happen? Well if you ask me, enough is enough already and it's time for REAL CHANGE, not the kind of change that we're seeing currently, but the kind that can only come from putting our foot down and saying NO MORE!

Please, I beg of you on behalf of all the children of the world and their present and future rights... do your homework, like REALLY do your homework... don't watch the mainstream media as your only source for information for that has been proven to be false the majority of the time. Utilize the tools we have available to help ensure the safety of us all, before it's too late. Demand paper at the polls and realize that for once we don't have to vote for 'the lesser of the two evils' for Ron Paul is making a stand on our behalf to protect our Constitution, our rights, our safety and our future. He is the only one demanding peace for ALL, that we need to stay out of other countries business especially when they don't want us or need us there. He is the only one standing up for ALL races and demanding equality... do your homework and you'll see.

God Bless America and God Bless Ron Paul!!!

Love & Light,

Shelle

When the fallen fell... into the churches

I've been writing about this on different blog posts and I decided it's high time I compile my message into one, for clarity purposes and to help those of the light stay in the light.
When Satan and the Fallen Angels were cast out of Heaven, they were given dominion over the earth. One of the very first things they did was strategically place themselves directly into the churches and into positions of power over the people in various places. Their main purpose here is to hurt God, they're angry they were cast out and they're angry with mankind because God said that the Angels should help mankind. (He actually said that mankind were higher than the Angels and this is what started the war in Heaven. Lucifer did not want to bow down to mankind.) In my opinion I don't think that God meant any harm in this because it's not that we're better than Angels, of course we could never be because they were created from God, they are made of His light and humans were created from dirt. In my opinion what I think is that God meant since we do not have powers like the Angels do, that the Angels were to help us; they are His messengers here to help deliver us to Heaven.

In trying to hurt God they knew they could never hurt Him directly so they are trying to hurt us, His children and by hurting us they hurt God. God loves us so much and I'm sure it causes him pain to see us suffer by the hands of the fallen and the demons. That is one of the reasons the Bible still has in it clues as to how we can go about fighting demons, if need be. A lot of the texts however have been altered in the Bible to mislead God's children and cause us to fight amongst ourselves, for example religious wars and arguing over religion when it's brought up almost anywhere. One could be at a party and the minute people start talking politics or religion, fights break out. It seems as though people will never agree about religion because we weren't meant to, that's how the fallen planned it.

You see because the fallen were once Angels, they still have powers; just because they fell does not mean they were stripped of their powers. Like Angels, they have the power to do amazing things, each having their own, various types of powers. One power in particular is to be able to see into the future (visions) as well as other things such as mind reading and communicating with us through telepathy (being able to talk to each other through our minds.) Of course there are many more powers, but this isn't about power, this is about what they're doing with those powers and why we must realize what's happening so that we can stop the cycle. With their power of seeing into the future they saw that placing themselves within the churches would and could lead to a great number of problems for God's children. They tell us a long list of "sins" to make us feel unworthy of God's love, telling us that we're sinners and that because of those sins we're doomed... unless of course we do what they say and repent, give them our money through "donations" and so forth. I'm not against churches or religions, don't get me wrong. What I'm against are the lies and deceit that's going on and people aren't seeing or realizing they're actually being led astray through some of the very churches they love so much. Some people will say they can feel God in the church or that they feel His presence; that's great and I'm not saying God doesn't show up but what I do know is that demons and fallen angels are the ones running the show and misinterpreting the bible. Not only did they alter a lot of what is written, again and again, now they are standing before us preaching what God said and scaring the wits out of people... saying we should fear God is one of the worst lies ever. I get into debates all the time with people who are religious and love God, who tell me that God is loving and forgiving but that He must punish the wicked and then call me wicked because I'm telling people the truth about the demons and fallen. No one wants to believe they've been deceived because then where would they go on Sunday's to feel better about themselves? Yep, I said it... and I'll say it again. People go to church to feel better about themselves. They go to church to hear that they're sinners, made to feel guilty, that others are horrible for committing sins and how they'll be saved because they asked for forgiveness and stopped having sex or because they're denying their sexual desires to be gay. Yep I said that too! :) Go ahead ask me, and I'll tell you how I feel... it's a crock of shit. The very preachers who are saying don't be gay and don't have sex are some of the ones molesting innocent little boys and then saying they'll be forgiven because they asked for forgiveness. Give me a break, seriously if that doesn't scream demonic to you then I might not be able to help you. Now I'm not saying the priests or pastors or higher ups in the ranks of the church who are committing those crimes are demons or fallen... but they might be or they might have been possessed or influenced in some way to do such things by those who are demons or fallen within the churches. They might have even been set up... another power that Angels (and demons) have is the ability to morph into whomever they want. They can make themselves look, talk and for the most part act like anyone they choose. So who knows, maybe one of them (or several of them) morphed into some of these church folk and molested the kids so they'd be removed from the church. Maybe they figured out who was a demon and they wanted to put a stop to them from coming forward and calling them out... who knows what really happened, only God and those directly involved really know.

The fact of the matter here is that the fallen, the demons and those they've corrupted are going around scaring the wits out of people, making them feel guilty for being human and making us all believe we're such huge sinners because of sex and other sins. Many people are sinners, don't get me wrong there either. If you molest kids, have sex with animals, lie, cheat, steal, kill or cause harm to others (humans or animals) then yes, you're a big time sinner and I'd say it to your face. Even an innocent lie to cover our hides is a sin, unless it's a lie to protect an innocent or to conceal something that isn't supposed to be revealed like the truth about certain things magickal, then yes that's different. But if you're just lying for personal gain or to hurt someone, it's a sin.

I'll cover more on the next blog... I'll be waiting for the controversial shit storm that I'm sure will be coming soon! See you soon!!! Bring it on Bible pushers!!! :)


Love & Light,
Shelle

So you're thinking about selling your soul?

Demons are all around us here on earth and one of their main missions here on earth is to steal the souls of God’s children from them. They may offer money, power or fame but at what cost? Our souls are not really ours to wager with, for they belong to God. Would you spend an eternity in damnation for $20.00? For that is basically all those things amount to is a mere drop in the bucket compared to what one would face for selling their soul. Sure being a famous rock star or celebrated movie star may sound good now but once this ride is over, where will one wind up? Some people think it’s no big deal, they’ll be here for so many years and in the meantime they want to enjoy it… but when we look at how quickly one life ends, time goes by in a flash and before you know it we’re moving on. For those who don’t sell their souls, many come back to earth several times; they return to live again and again, playing out their karma and learning lessons that will help them advance in heaven. But someone who sells their soul… well they don’t get another chance, one ride and it’s over – do not pass go, do not collect $200.00. Once we finally move on to Heaven and not have to return we’re able to have whatever we want, for eternity. When you compare the momentary riches that one enjoys here on earth for just one lifetime, compared to that of eternity… well you get the point. It’s like you can either have $20.00 now or unlimited riches later. When people think of hell or damnation they think fire and brimstone, burning in hell. Yes and no… just like there are different levels in heaven there are also different types of hell. In one in particular one gets hunted, chased, tortured and killed in the most horrific ways… by demons, everyday all day and when you finally die it resets and the day begins again. It doesn’t end; there is no rest period and time to just relax; hunted like you’re a steak on a barbecue and the 40 to 200 demons chasing you haven’t eaten for 20 years. Or maybe you’re a great fighter and you’re thinking you could beat them or outrun them… could you fight off 1,000 demons who have magickal powers, swords, machetes and chain saws, and you're equipped with just your bare hands?

Sure, one could burn in hell for eternity, which maybe doesn’t sound so bad right now because it’s not happening at the moment and to say it wouldn’t be so bad is easy to say because we aren’t experiencing it or know what we speak of. But let me ask you this: Have you ever broken a bone? Have you ever burnt yourself on the stove or on an open fire? Have you ever hurt yourself so bad that you were in shear agony and could barely stand it? Even though it was only for a moment, didn’t that moment just HURT? Now take that moment of pain and imagine it never ending… or imagine for a moment running for your life from the most ferocious of creatures, hiding in the forest and when caught (oh you would get caught!) and then suffering torture of the worst kind… giant hooks dug into your skin, ripping at your flesh; or how about your limbs being pulled until the bones break and shatter and the skin finally rips away from your body? Or how about each and every limb being slowly sawed off over and over again, while you watch? And what if I told you that you’d only get $20.00 now for that kind of torture, every day until you die and then it starts all over again… how’s $20 bucks sound? Or $2,000.00? Or $40,000.00? We all know how fast we spend, would any amount suffice for you to go through endless torture on a constant basis, forever? Sure, maybe being a rock star or celebrity for 20 years sounds good, but in reality 20 years is nothing and it goes by in the blink of an eye.

This is just a small example of what it means to sell your soul to the devil.  Sure, maybe you could be a famous celebrity or rock star for a few years but deals with the devil or his demons will never work out in your favor and in the end will seem like a mere $20 bucks compared to the price one has to pay for selling their soul. Some people think why not sell their soul, since we’re all sinners and according to many religions we’ll probably go to hell anyway right? Wrong. The demons and fallen angels have strategically placed themselves within the churches and altered a lot of what is written within the bible to mislead God’s children into thinking so many things are causes for going to hell that we’ll all end up there anyway so that it’s easier to convince us to sell our precious God given souls. They say having sex before marriage is a major sin, having sex with that of the same sex or that even using cuss words are sins… I’m here to tell you those are not sins and you won’t go to hell for them. Granted things such as murder and being prejudice, lying and manipulating people are major sins, but if one commits such sins there is a chance for redemption but we need to make amends for things like that before we leave this life. To make amends with God for whatever sin you think you may have committed, one just needs to ask for forgiveness with a true sincerity from their heart… like when someone you love has hurt you and they apologize, cry and you can feel that they are truly sorry and swear they won’t do it again and you believe them because you can actually feel that they mean it, like that (and one can't keep committing the same sin and think it's ok to do it again, it's not and it's actually worse). And one would need to do things to help others, to say what those are I could go on and on… it would basically amount to putting others needs ahead of our own, kind selfless acts of love and service. I’ll write more about what to do redeem ourselves in another post however this one is to point out that we mustn’t sell our souls for any price because quite frankly our souls are priceless. If our souls weren’t priceless then the demons wouldn’t want them. Sure they may act like they’re worthless or not worth a whole lot, but that is another deception.

Maybe you’re not happy with the life your living, maybe you’re single, lonely or can’t find a job or the job of your dreams… maybe you’re living what you think is a miserable life and it doesn’t seem like it’ll get any better. But did you ever think that maybe this is your test? We live each life here thinking it’s our only one and maybe this one you’re in you aren’t happy with… but what if in your past lives you passed all the tests and this is one of your last lives before you get to stay in heaven and the cycle of reincarnation will end after this one, and all you have to do is prove your loyalty to God? What if in your past lives you were an awful person who hurt people and you were prejudice and this is your last chance to redeem yourself? You have a chance… God wouldn’t have given you this precious life if you didn’t have a chance. This IS your chance. We are each on our own mission or quest in this life time, right now. We each have some sort of destiny to fulfill, no matter how large or small. Where one person was only meant to give birth to a certain child and their mission is complete so they go home to heaven early or where another person’s mission may be to save a certain person at a certain time and place and their mission is completed… we are the only ones who can figure out our mission for within us the answers await. Maybe you won’t ever figure out your mission, but that doesn’t mean you should give up. Maybe you have a mission every day to bring love and joy to people’s lives that you encounter wherever you work or maybe you’ll be the one to say something that will help save someone’s life and you won’t even know you helped them. Maybe someone’s mission is to volunteer and help feed the hungry or make a stand to help save the environment. I don’t know what your mission is, I can’t tell you. But there are ways to find out which I’ll cover in another post as well.

The point is this: God gave us these precious, amazing souls and each person will go through many tests, trials and tribulations in order to earn our way into heaven; along the way we will be tempted by the devil and his demons to do things that God wouldn’t approve of and they will try to steal us away from the light. We will suffer and we will cry, we will hurt and we will be confused, neglected, abused and more. The closer we are to fulfilling our mission here, the more we may face that will try to deter us from our destiny and from God. But I am here to warn you, help you understand a little better and give you what hope I can so that you will stay in the light and stay on the course that will lead to eternal happiness and bliss. God has always been there for you and always will be. He gave us free will to do as we please but He’s watching us. Our deeds will be weighed when judgment day comes and if we have balanced out our karma, repaid our debts for the wrongs we’ve done, then we will get to either go to heaven or we may go to one of the levels of hell. The thing is, why sell our souls for temporary, fake happiness when we have the chance for eternal bliss in the kingdom of heaven? We can all make it to heaven, we just have to try our best and believe… have faith and trust that we can make it through those pearly gates. We wouldn’t be here right now if we didn’t have a chance.

Love & Light,

Shelle

What IF this planet is really a reality TV show for other planets??!!!

Well, let me ask you this, what kind of relationship do you have with Jesus or the Almighty God in Heaven? If you're anything like me, then you may say that you have a very close relationship with them and that you receive blessings, messages and more from 'the other side'. If you know God, then you may already know that we have a True Spirit, because 'we' don't really exist as we may feel we do. There is actually a part of us, the 'real' us, up in Heaven watching us 'down' here.

We are but an extension of our true selves, a tiny microcosm of who we really are. In Heaven, we are a great and ethereal being, a spirit. Imagine this... You are in Heaven and there is a tiny version of yourself here on earth, almost like a doll or a puppet if you will. Now granted we have such a thing as free will here on earth, so in essence we are a puppet without strings. We are like Pinocchio, made real by sheer will and desire.

Which leads me to my next question... have you ever meditated and asked what your 'True Spirit' is doing up there? I have and what I saw was a very large version of myself, slightly different in appearance but me nonetheless. What happened was that I was meditating one day and I prayed that I could see God in Heaven and next thing I knew I was there by His side. Mother God was there and so was Jesus. I gave them praise and all in all I didn't have any questions for them, for I knew that what we're experiencing 'down' here was not as important all of a sudden. I mean yes, there are important decisions we make that lead to the development of our character and the type of person we become and evolve into, some being good and others not so good. But in the grand scheme of things, the only really important thing is that we learn, love and share our talents and gifts with others. When face to face with God, I had nothing to say except Thank you and I love you. While I was there, I figured I'd ask to see my true spirit and what I was doing at the time. Jesus gestured to his left as if to say 'have a look' and I saw my spirit, sitting down in a cloud and leaning forward, hand on her chin, looking into a giant stone bowl type object, with her elbow resting on the edge. I walked up to her and looked into the bowl and saw that she was looking down at me!

Now I know for some, this may sound like one of the craziest things they've heard or close to it. But for those who meditate and believe in God, it's not that crazy sounding at all. When you develop a relationship with God your life can change so much, as does your view of the world in which we live. You start to realize that we are not alone, not by a long shot. The more you do research and the more you pray, meditate and get closer to God, the more you're able to see and learn.

Imagine your life is a movie, one long DVD... now imagine that you have been here before and lived other lives, had many adventures and countless experiences; all of which you can access by rewinding a DVD. You're able to say 'show me who I was in my last life' and hit a button on the remote and poof, you're immediately shown a snippet of who you were and without anyone having to 'tell' you, you just 'know' details. Somewhat like a movie or book you've read, you can recall the intimate details of the problems you faced, the desires you had and the dreams you once prayed for. You can see how you died, the feelings you felt and the disappointment you felt for not having 'done' everything you once dreamt you would accomplish. Thinking to yourself, "wow, this is how it ends. I never got to do..." and maybe you think, "well it's been a nice ride and now it's over". A sense of sadness comes over you because you really liked being 'you' and being alive. That's what meditation and being close to God can do for you. You have the ability to see everything as it was, see who you were in various lives and the 'story' of that which is you.

 

This is where some of the greatest movies and books come from, memories of a past life; whether the author is aware of it or not, this is where some of our inspiration comes from. Our dreams sometimes show us snippets of who we once were, but if you ask me, nothing compares to asking God to show you 'such and such' for with God all things are possible. I have a friend that has such a close relationship with God that she visits him in her sleep almost every night. She walks by His side and has conversations about everything you can imagine and some things we can't even imagine. She has what I call "the inside scoop" and sometimes I ask her questions about my life and in return, she says "why don't you ask God?" So I do. Well one day she was so excited she couldn't contain it and I was able to pry out of her what it was she discovered. She had found out that I had a soul mate who was absolutely perfect for me, we had so much in common that we even had similar view points, all the same interests and desires and much, much more. Upon learning he existed, I wanted to know more...

So one day I prayed, meditated, and asked God to show me who we were to each other in our past life, for something inside told me this wasn't our first lives in which we would know each other. As soon as I asked God showed me... we were sitting in a large room, it was day light out but the room was kind of dark and we sat at a table in front of a fireplace. There was a chess board in front of us and we were so happy to be together, laughing and talking. We were young, around 13 years old and we were cousins. There's more to tell, but I'm saving that for my book!

What I have learned over the years in my quest for truth is that there is so much that we don't know and so much that some people refuse to accept and some even get angry if you bring up the subjects of God, past lives and Angels. If you were to ask me, I'd say that I feel sorry for those that won't open up to the miracles and blessings that God has for us and when I do talk to people who don't believe or are not yet ready to believe, I tell them they'll find out someday. In my opinion, I'd rather learn about as much as I can now as opposed to waiting for someday...

To the question "what if this planet is a reality show for other planets?" I don't know yet about the other planets possibly watching us or much about the truth of aliens except that they do exist, but I do know that yes, we are a reality show, for ourselves up in Heaven. We are the star of our show and it is up to us to do great things so that one day, when this little extension of who we are is rewinding the DVD we too can be proud of ourselves.

Love & Light,

Shelle

Healing with the power of our minds - How to :)

When I first heard of healing with the powers of our minds I was completely ready to accept the information as my dad's life was on the line. He was in the hospital "on his death bed" and it was my holistic chiropractor who told me to hold my hand over the area his liver was in and imagine it being healed! That was my first attempt and although I wasn't sure if it was the milk thistle or my trying to heal him with my mind that helped or a combination of the two, I didn't care! All that mattered to me was that he was healing.

Some people may not be ready to believe or accept that it's possible to heal with the power of our minds and that's ok. If you don't believe then it may not work for you or those you wish you could heal. For those who are ready to believe, this one's for you! I'm a firm believer that in order for something to work for you, one must believe that it can or that it does work for that matter.

There are a few ways that I heal and all of them work for me. The first is EFT tapping; I thought this was awesome when I first heard of it because there are so many testimonies online of people being healed of major things. You can either do it yourself or have someone else do it for you. I'll paste a few videos below. EFT tapping can be used for all sorts of things so I recommend you explore a little on youtube for the specific ailment or solution you're looking for. Some people use it to reprogram their limiting beliefs, help them to manifest, open their 3rd eye chakra, as well as healing... which is awesome if you ask me!

The next is my personal favorite and it seems to be one of the fastest methods I've learned, healing with your chakras. Let's say your throat hurts, focus on the color of your throat chakra (blue like the sky) and picture it being bright blue, large and covering the entire area all the way through your throat / neck / mouth area (from front to back and side to side.) As though the light is shining entirely through you in all areas. If you have cramps, stomach pains, etc. in the lower pelvis area or even as low as your feet picture the red chakra being bright red; for the abdomen I use the orange chakra and if I'm not sure which of the two it truly is I'll focus on both, one after the next. Another thing I do while I'm focusing on my chakra's is telling them to "heal" I usually keep it simple "thank you for healing my stomach" or what have you.

The awesome thing about our chakra's is that they can help us in many areas of our lives from our mental and physical wellbeing to manifesting and creating our desires in the physical realm. In cases such as the back of the head hurting or if I'm not sure which color to use, I go to my favorite healing color which is green.

Green is an all around heal it all color. Green is the color for healing, it represents the Earth and Archangel Raphael who is the patron for healing uses green to heal. Let's say for instance your loved one is in another state with some ailment such as diabetes or cancer. I focus on them, what their entire body looks like as if I'm standing in front of them and see their entire body. I then picture them being inside of a green bubble and that light shines through their entire body, healing them. I focus on the love I have for them and the desire for them to be in perfect divine health. I say something like "thank you green light for healing such and such person" whatever their name is. If their ailment is something major I tell them to do the same, picture healing green light all around them and through them and to thank the Universe, God or whoever it is they believe in for helping them heal "Thank you God for healing me" and to believe that they are healed. Because most of us are humans and our manifestations aren't always instant, one may need to continue focusing on green / healing several times throughout the day to help ensure that the healing continues until their ailment is completely gone. If they believe in healing with our minds and they're there with you, you can also place your hand over the area that needs healing and picture that green healing light is coming from your hand and healing that person... picture them being perfectly healed and healthy to help the desired intention manifest.

Another thing that works for me is to always believe that I am in perfect divine health and that my body heals itself. By doing so we are programming our body to continually heal and release any dis-ease. It's the same as manifesting, whatever we believe is ours we will manifest; if you believe you are sick you will be; if you believe you are in perfect divine health, you will be. There are other preventative measures one can take as well, such as releasing stress, negativity, forgiving yourself and others because these are all toxic to our bodies and when we hold onto such things they manifest in other forms of dis-ease. I am a strong believer that when we send out negativity to another person we are inviting bad things into our lives and it usually results in some of the things mentioned above. Send out loving, healing thoughts and that's what you'll create in your own life. Remember the song Michael Jackson sang "Man in the Mirror" it's very similar to that... focus and heal the negative thoughts and actions in your mind and you will in turn help others as well. In my blog about the Earth I mention meditating while walking and releasing stress, anxiety and so on back into the Earth for transmutation... release it and let it go. I may rant in my blogs sometimes about wrong-doings and things that upset me, but once I've written about them I let them go and will usually go back later and archive the blog so that I'm not sending negativity into the world. I work through some of my "stuff" through writing, maybe for you it's singing, crying, or yelling. Whatever your method, as long as you are not hurting anyone and you are releasing it, do so and let it go; leave the past in the past.

Another thing I recommend for healing properly is to talk to your body and ask it what does it need? Many times our bodies will let us know by various signs that it needs something, if you pay attention to the subtle (or obvious) changes in your body your instincts will usually let you know what it's lacking. Sometimes it's as simple as more water, less soda, a good long nap, a massage or what not. Meditating and asking your body "what do you need to help you heal or function properly?" and then listening for the answer or the first thing that pops into your head, are sure signs of what it's asking for. If you don't meditate, try looking in the mirror and asking yourself "what do you want?" relax and don't force it; and again the first thing that pops in your head is usually right. Sometimes our bodies and our spirits are very unhappy with where we work too, or a relationship that we're in, so don't be surprised if something like that pops into your mind! If it's money, then ask yourself how you can get more and what you can do to make yourself happy. Maybe your current job isn't paying you enough to get caught up on bills, the stress may be showing on you and you may become ill; maybe a second temporary job to help get you through the tough times is all you need! Just make sure you get plenty of rest and nutrition otherwise you can create a whole other slew of problems! Or maybe simply cutting back on a few things for a little while will help ease the stress and create a more positive balance on your account. You know you better than anyone and know what you need most in your life for a happy, harmonized body, mind and soul. If not, ask and find out! :)

If you have any questions about healing or this post please don't hesitate to ask, I'm here to help where I can! If you would like me to shine light on you, I'll be more than happy to do that too! Remember to release the ailment though and own your perfect divine health! "Thank you Universe for keeping my body in perfect divine health" or "thank you God for granting me perfect divine health."

Love & Light,

Shelle 

http://eft.mercola.com/ (EFT tapping points)

http://www.emofree.com/eft-tutorial/tapping-basics/what-is-eft.html (All sorts of EFT info!)